Not 4 Everyone ...

Now fathers aren't birthed from trees or brought in a candy store either. Some people out of jealousy or anger may say that any man is the best candidate. Nonetheless we disagree because not every male figure can be a good role model for a young man in need.  

A real father isn't afraid to cry in front of their sons/daughters or clarify the misconceptions about it being cool to be physically, verbally and/or mentally abusive towards a woman they supposedly love. Finally they stick around during ALL kinds of storm's so that their a source of love, comfort and confidence for their kids ... One more thing, this our definition for the word Fatherhood ... 

Proverbs 20:7 ~  The righteous who walks in his integrity blessed are his children after him?

Something 2 Ponder, 

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (c)Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved

Try This?

Instead of debating, arguing or ignoring your kids because your not on the same page with your wife or their mom, why not try this?

Provers 9:9 ~ Give instruction to a wise man and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning.

When you take the time to teach your son or daughter something new & important about life, making wise decisions regarding choosing their friends or even help them with their homework ... Your then displaying that you know how to be a positive male role model  ...

Something 2 Ponder,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (c)Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved

Answer This?

This is a question for all the absentee fathers that due to the following reasons aren't available to help, comfort and/or guide their sons or daughters ... Perhaps you had a one night stand and you weren't aware that the young lady you were sexually active with became pregnant ... Maybe you tried to get along but things didn't work out with your girlfriend or spouse ... To much arguing because one or both of you didn't wish to leave behind your single ways ... Whatever the reason maybe, we're not here to judge; but to ask you to PLEASE think about what your kids are going through while your not around and ponder this with an open mind ... 

Proverbs 11:14 ~ Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.

Something 2 Ponder,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (c)Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved

Share A Name?

We have a quick question for all of you ... If you could name the best father figure in the world, who would it be? Now, in our opinion the only name  that easily rolls off the tips of our tongues is Jehovah God ... For the simple fact that his actions spoke and continue to speak for themselves ... We're referring to the manner in which he sacrificed his only begotten son for you, us and the rest of mankind ... Followed by his entire Ministry never being focused on himself, instead his mind and heart was and still is centered on those in need ...

Present and future fathers all over the world, a bit of advice for all of you ... If your having difficulty understanding your fatherhood role ... Ponder this when you have a minute ...

Proverbs 20:7 ~ The righteous who walks in his integrity blessed are his children after him!

Something 2 Ponder,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (c)Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved